Parents sometimes make the odd error and that both want their children to look for excuses all the time to justify the bad behavior. This gets worse the way you act and enlarge at the time.
The time has come to understand that these are simply excuses and that you need to focus on educating your child as you should for most be a great and successful person. To start, start by eliminating excuses, more used as they only managed to damage the education of your child.
4 of the Excuses used by parents to justify to the children
1 – Are as well at this age
Some parents excuse their children blaming the age. They say that they are in an age terrible, or that teenagers are as well. Although some ages are more complicated than others, you should not use the complication as an excuse. On the contrary. It is time to be clear that there must be some limits and that every action must have a consequence.
2 – they Are only children
Probably the excuse most used of all time. Although it is true that they are not yet aware of certain things and it is very well let them enjoy life, you should know that there are that give them limits.
In this stage is where we teach you what is good and what is evil. We must also help them to develop values. If we do not, will grow up without knowing what behavior is appropriate. Don’t spend to drop this excuse and look the other way.
3 – you Have a problem
Excuses such as “it is very nervous,” are quite harmful. It is true that there are children who may have problems such as attention deficit disorder and hyperactivity, and behave badly by it, but to use this disorder as an excuse can make the situation worse.
4 – it is Not your fault
There are occasions that parents are looking for another culprit for misbehavior does not fall on your child. This is a serious error because the children will learn that their bad actions have no consequences.
Face the reality and be aware that you must raise children with good values and with the responsibility of what they do. If you do not, since they are small, don’t try to do it when you have 20 years. It will be quite late.