Aristotle is probably the philosopher who has most influenced the history of western thought. He wrote on many topics, and friendship was one of them. When this way of relating so noble and free, is true, you get to take the best of us, adding joy to life. Aristotle said that there are three types of friendships, two of which occur accidentally and one intentionally.
The 3 types of friendship, according to Aristotle
1 – Friendship of utility
This is the first type; both people are involved because they get some kind of benefit from the relationship. The expiration date usually coincides with the loss of those benefits. It is usually very common among adults.
2 – Friendship of pleasure
The second type of friendship is more common among young people because pleasure is in the skin. It is often formed between friends who do sport or go to parties together. Ends when one of the two mature and stop doing this type of activities.
3 – Friendship of good
The third is the true friendship. Not looking to take advantage of this relationship. Simply share the good life. Typically last for many years, even a lifetime, if both people are kind. However, you should know that you can have friends but very few are actually friends in the real sense of the word.
You need to give yourself and give your time to your friend so the people who have no empathy often don’t experience this kind of friendship. It is usually an intimate and very deep friendship where you do not have to obtain benefits.
As we have told you, the friendship is governed by three general qualities: utility, pleasure, and goodness. And for a friendship to be real, there has to be a wish of good will, mutual and known. It is impossible to be a friend of an inanimate object because you can not wish well, or to be a friend of someone you do not, although you wish good to each other.