Do you know that feeling you get when you meet or get to know a person and become impressed? Do you suddenly have all your attention focused on him or her and see that person as unique and perfect? But, what happens when you are not the center of attention of that person? Learn the steps that you should follow so that you, too, will become the object of their affection.
How to become the priority of the person that you like
Take a decision and be consistent
What is important is not just thinking about it, but take care to do what is necessary to attain the objective. The key is to act, but there are more plans in your head.
You know their tastes and hobbies
Before you approach that person, the first thing you have to do is study them thoroughly: what he likes to do, places they like to go to,… So when will you propose a plan they won’t be able to refuse.
You don’t have to always be telling jokes, but if you do laugh, you have given a giant leap towards victory. Your sense of humour has to be light but powerful.
Communicate the smart way
An intelligent conversation causes the other person to turn on a “bulb” and start to see you differently. Your words must be effective to attract their attention and stay in their memory.
Your goal is to have them focus on you for as long as possible. Come without fear, talk to him for a few minutes and go back to folding. The interest should be moderate.
Looking for all the options that you can to get importance in the life of that person: the sites to which you can go, what there is to do in the city,… When you experience moments of adrenaline with a person they tend to develop affection towards you.
Use body language
60% of what we communicate is non-verbal. So body language is very important in communicating with your partner. Use slow but determined gestures and gentle movements.
Show yourself just as you are. Express what you really like and what you do not, always maintaining composure and respect. You have to try to get their attention, not to frighten them.
Be subtle and charming
The most important thing is that you show that person that you’re special, so try to be charming but with a touch of mystery. Smile in a subtle way when talking, a way to show your good character, without becoming a jester.
Not bogged down
That person also has his activities and his life. Do not try to bog them down. If you want to be the priority for that person, what is important is that you become someone they want to spend time with, not of whom he wants to escape.
Trust in your virtues
A good attitude is always important. But remember that what you need is self-assurance, not arrogance. The line between them is very thin, and crossing it could ruin everything.
Surprise your loved one
What you’re trying to do is to surprise the other person in as many ways as you can, using the information you’ve collected about him or her. Do not be afraid to take some risks, especially when you believe it you can be useful.
Do it with confidence
If you really want to become their priority the most important thing that you have to put forward confidence and certainty that what you’re trying to achieve is what you actually really want. With it, everything else is a matter of time…