When you start to adapt to the idea of living free, independent and happy without the need of having a partner at hand, you find yourself with a stranger who you know and end up becoming your partner. Just when you were ready to live like this, someone comes into your life, you fall in love and they help you see the world with different eyes.
5 Things you learn when you fall in love with the right person
1 – Relationships are not painful
Opening your heart and invest your time with the right person has made you discover unimaginable things. Now you know that relationships require effort, but they are not painful. You no longer have the need to put your pride above it all.
2 – Commitment is not a burden
You see that there are still people who are in favor of commitment. They made an effort at the start of the relationship and continue to do so. You managed to change your thinking that commitment was a liability and has shown that the only thing you needed was loyalty.
3 – You deserve to be loved
Take a timeout with that person and finally, you understand when your best friend told you that you deserved to be loved. It is a requited love, a love that is pure and passionate. The kind of love that strips you bare of all your fears and insecurities.
4 – You would fight for this person
For a long time, you searched for someone good-hearted, intelligent, open-minded and affectionate, but the idea of fighting for someone else seemed pointless. Now that you’re with the right person you are aware that you were simply chasing the wrong people.
5 – Two is better than one
You know that being with someone who is not you has been very good for you. Finding this person has brought normalcy and stability and has brought much joy to your life. You also see that working on yourself is not to change who you are, but evolve into the person you must become.
These are things of which we are not aware when we have not yet found the right person and we have a negative thought about love. However, with finding the right person our vision changes and we learn that all was not as we thought.