In visiting a psychologist, one of the first things they inquire about during a consultation is your relationship with your parents and whether they are guilty of all sorts of evils. In reality, it has the fault of everything bad and everything good that happens to you and you will pass.
There are certain traits of your personality, the formation of which dates back to the times in which your parents scolded you for everything that you did. The way in which you were scolded, the frequency with which they did it, or the absence of reprimands, it has more to do with the person you are right now that you could probably imagine.
10 psychological Problems whose origin are the parents
Anxiety, depression, and dependence
The ‘Helicopter Parent‘ are responsible for these adults. Always monitoring and judging what your child does. Such a level of supervision and meddling leads to psychological problems. If every time you have to make an important decision you call your parents, you are one of these children.
Harmful addctions and extreme sports
You’ve grown up thinking that the world would be better without you so that your subconscious drags you to destroy yourself: alcohol, drugs, tobacco, or extreme sports.
Unable to rest and relax
If since you were small your parents always demanded to know everything, if you are unable to maintain composure and conduct yourself as an adult, you are now a person who istense and on guard, unable to relax.
If you were constantly compared to your other siblings, or with the rest of the children, this made you, as a teenager self-critical and an adult with an inferiority complex. You always want to be the best and you can’t stand to come in second place.
Problems in your personal life
The world is against you and everything will seem like a hostile ground. You do not trust anyone and you find it difficult to have a personal life.
In search of the bride-mother
“You’re too young for that“ if your mother will still repeat this until you are 30, now what you will be looking for in a partner, is a father figure to make up for the void of the child-adult that you’ve become. You are dependent and you need to continue raising even in your stage of maturity.
Lack of initiative and suppression of your own talents
Your parents never praised your abstract drawings, you were rebuked for daydreaming and make smartass. Now, as an adult your creativity is repressed, you lack an opinion, and you are unable to make a decision. Yes, you are an employee fabulous to abide by orders without hesitation.
Unable to feel
Encourage a small child to stop crying or to get excited and not show your feelings, makes your subconscious is closing in on itself and have trouble feeling emotions as an adult.
Feeling of guilt
Your parents have sacrificed everything for you, for your education and your future and do not get tired of reminding yourself. That pressure as a child makes you grow up with a sense of guilt that will be with you the rest of your life.
Irresponsibility and immaturity
The overprotective father has a side even more dangerous, which directly does not allow you to do anything for fear that something might happen. The prohibition of all makes the child unable to make decisions for fear of repercussions.